How to keep your girlfriend H A P P Y ! :">

1. Maintain. If you did a bunch of cute things with her before, try & keep it up. You don’t have to go all out everyday for her, but don’t stop completely just because you got her already.
2. “Ladies first.” No. That rule doesn’t apply to communication. Don’t wait for her call, text, IM, why don’t you try talking to her first for a change ? It’s thoughtful & sweet if a guy can actually do that.
3. Surprise her. You don’t have to drive an hour to her house at 3 a.m. to set off her name in fireworks in front of her window, but the little things are big things. A simple, good morning text, is more powerful than you think.
4. What insecurities ? For the love of God, all girls have insecurities. Please don’t point them out. For example, today I was looking at food & my boyfriend said “You eat a lot. You probably could beat me at a buffet.” WHAT. THAT’S NOT WHAT YOU SAY. Also, let her be herself. If she’s having a bad hair day, don’t make fun of her if it’s hurtful. Let her wear sweatpants & still feel pretty damn cute around you, even when she’s not looking her best.
5. Act the same around your friends. You’re not a real man if you completely blow off your girl in front of your homeboys. When you’re going to hang out with her & your friends you better not run off & leave her standing there to greet them like WUDDUPPP GUYSSS.. NO, you better at least walk with her & introduce her to them if you haven’t already. If you walk with her hand in hand, she’ll love it.
6. When she’s mad. Dude, you better try & get her back. Chase her, whatever it is, don’t let her walk away when she’s mad at you. It shows you don’t care enough to go after her. Don’t let her go.
7. One & Only. If your girl really doesn’t like one of your friends, trust, she has good reason to. Girls’ intuition -shrug- So don’t go hanging with your homegirl all the time if you know your girlfriend doesn’t like that bitch. She usually won’t hate for no reason. Respect her. 
8. Trust. Honesty. If you lie to her, you’re going to have one hell of a time regaining that trust because she’ll start questioning everything you’ve said or done for her, no matter how small that lie was. Fess up or get lost.
9. Love her. That’s all.

Good things also have to come to an end.

I wish I could finish this without getting very emotional. I posted this because I want everyone to know how proud I am to be a part of Starbucks, especially of this team. In the later years, as I look back... this will make me remember that once in my life I became a "barista".

I will miss everything that only 'partners' can relate. The "kinse break", "buss back", "tag u there" "sit down", "passing-hot" which I always add 'sexy' after it that makes everyone on the floor say

'wow ah, teka lang', then they will laugh! :3 Especially the word 'Never Fear'. This journey has been and will always be a big part of me. The happy shifts I know I'll be forever missed. Those people who gave another name for me, "Bebe Gurl" which I always love being called.

The customers who have been a big part of me na sana I had also pictures with. The incomparable smiles on their faces when they see you, that's priceless! I wish they will remember me too as I have also engraved their names on my heart.

How ironic that the ones I don't think will be special to me before were now the ones who occupied and touched my heart. I will miss you all. I wish I could stayed longer... I hate saying goodbyes but then good things also have to come to an end.

Thanks to Bing for giving me so many chances to be part of this team! To my barista trainer Glenn and Jheye and mentors Elvin, Jaypee and Jessa for being so supportive all throughout the months I stayed with the team regardless of how hard-headed I was. It has molded me to a better person now. I've learned how to accept negative feedbacks and learn from them. No one's perfect. We make mistakes. But then, I learned not to dwell on those things anymore. Sabi nga nila, "move on move on din." :)

And today, 11th of November 2012, exactly my last day as a barista... I want to thank you all, team 110 (One Rockwell) Till we meet again! ♥

Love,
9753

now signing out... :")

FAIL/PALE

Saturday, 10:20 in the morning and I should be doing my assignments... but guess what? I'm doing this upsetting blog right now - thinking it could lessen the depression. I just had these disappointments last night. I was not really expecting I will have this feeling again after all those uh, sweet-loving moments. :/ Maybe, I was just expecting that this would turned out different from before. But then yes, a big FAILURE. I can not really get out from its shadow - (i mean, that so called-DISAPPOINTMENT) I don't know. I don't want to fuel my mind with upsetting and stressful thoughts. Can I just, ignore it? And start my day as if nothing's bothering me. (As if) If only I could that be transparent about my feelings, then maybe, for sure... you will understand me. Indeed, I am a worrier - just what I usually describe myself is. I'm always worried/bothered by things that I should/shouldn't have done. :/ And plus the motto of my life - WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW WON'T BOTHER NOR WILL HURT YOU. Truly.

I was just so upset. Sorry. My mind's confused.

Dearest Diary, ♥

It's been ages since I posted a blog here. I'd even already forgotten that I have this blog site. LOL You know what Diary, I was so happy these past 5 months. Err, I can still recall all the things happened months before that but, but and but(...)It's worth the pain. Look what and who I am now. Though there's a part of myself regretting about what it caused me but I'd had already forgiven them for whatever they had done to me. Past is not the main point here. It's the present - my today. :) From this quote, "Some of life's best lessons are learned at the worst times" Yea, it's true. A lot true on what I'd experienced. I believe that no matter where life takes me, I can still live my life on how I wanted it to be. And somehow it has to be learned that it's possible to trust again. I realized that not everyone is going to lie to me nor will hurt me. So what's new? I'm happy and contented for what I am now today. :) I will always keep memories of them in my heart(either good or bad) for it both helped me to be this person I am today. And though life is hard, tough && unfair.. everyone can get over the hurt and the pain. Just never ever gonna lose hope~ ♥ Just like me. :)

Just pictures~ :)

I'm the author of the only dictionary that defines me~ ♥

I want to share some of my favorite lines from the book "The be-happy Attitude". I was so happy that it seemed like I was bound to have this book. Every line deeply touches my heart and absorbs by my mind. Every stories, ideas and advices are truly meaningful and useful! c: Enjoy reading!

Be-Happy Attitude #3
- I'm going to be remain cool, calm and corrected.
Be-Happy Attitude #5
- I'm going to treat others the way I want them to treat me.
Be-Happy Attitude #6
- I've got to let the faith flow through me.
Be-Happy Attitude #8
- I can choose to be happy--anyway!

Nobody is financially secure
- The more you have, the more you can lose.

Material gains will not bring happiness.
- People who search for happiness in terms of money, possessions or investments portfolios are always in for rude awakening.

There's always somebody ready to help anybody.
- You're not going to get the help you need by putting on a false front by pretending you don't have a problem or by hoping it will go away.

We shouldn't ask why bad things happen to good people but rather ask what happens to good people when bad things happen to them.
- When bad things happen to good people, they are blessed for they are comforted. And yet, they become better person. c:

Trouble never leaves us where it finds us; sorrow will change our tomorrow. God inspires us to become better people not bitter ones.

Don't fix the blame, fix the problem.

- Decide not to go on for the rest of your life surrendering to sorrow and tears. We should always count on God's word.
Heb. 13:5 "I will never fail you nor will I forsake you."

- Do not accept defeat. Somehow we should learn to accept the reality of the bad things that happen to us without accepting emotional defeat.

- Tough times never last, but tough people do!

- Bury you selfish grief. Around us is a world filled with living human beings who are hurting more than you are.

- Think of God first, think of others second and then put yourself third.

- Add up your joy; never count your sorrows. Look at what you have left in your life; never look at what you have lost. Relive happy memories.

- Turn our problems into opportunities.

- Dream great dreams and make them come true!

- Pick up the broken hopes and start over again.

- Count your garden by the flowers; never by the leaves that fall.

If you think you're a total failure, remember this:
- Your greatest successes will forever remain -- God's secret!

Character can be changed! You can become a new person! Life can be beautiful! There's a solution to every problem. There's a light behind every shadow! God exists! Life goes on beyond death! Heaven is for real~ <3

Happiness--The beautiful belief in life is that no matter how difficult it may be, it is not your final destination.

Do's and Dont's ~ ♥

1. "Ang mag-assume, TALO (kahit 2% pa yan)."


2. "Kung ayaw may DAHILAN, kung gusto may PARAAN."


3. "Wag masyado magpadala sa text."


4. "BACK OFF (as in back off) sa mga IN A RELATIONSHIP, kahit saan anggulo mo tingnan, ikaw pa rin ang mali."


5. "Never borrow someone else's man/girl. If he/she cheated with you, he'll/she'll cheat on you."


6. "Hayaan mo siyang gawin yung gusto niyang gawin. Buhay niya yun, hindi mo maco-control. As long as alam niya yung limitations niya."
GOLDEN RULE: "Don't do unto HER what you don't want HER to do unto you."


7. "Take it slow... Steady lang..."


8. "Maniwala sa IT'S COMPLICATED na status. Hindi lang chenes yan."


9. "Learn to LET GO kung alam mong wala na talaga."
Don't stay because you think, "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. Sometimes guys mistreat you because you allow them to... Maintain boundaries in how a guy/girl treats you..."


10. "Keep your DIGNITY."


11. "If a man/woman wants you, nothing can keep him/her away. If he/she doesn't want you, nothing can make him/her stay."


12. "Wag magselos sa siblings and relatives ng boyfriend/girlfirend mo."


13. "Ang QT (quality time), at least 5 hours lang per week."


14. "Don't revolve your life around him/her. Learn to be independent."


15. "Hindi dahilan ang TIME."


16. "Kung ayaw sayo ng kapatid, hayaan mo siya. Wala siyang magagawa kung mahal ka talaga niya."


17. "Wag magpakilala sa parents agad. It can affect your relationship."


18. "Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Kadalasan tama ito mga girls..."


19. "Be nice to your EX. Wag maging BITTER"



20. "If a relationship ends because the man/woman was not treating you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. At some case this is applicable.."

21. "Wag magpadala sa SITUATION. Baka overwhelmed ka lang."

22. "Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his/her behavior. Paminsan-minsan take off your helmet."


23. "When you meet anyone, remember it's a holy encounter. As you treat them you will treat yourself. As you think of them, you think of yourself. Never forget this, for in them you will find yourself or lose yourself."


24. "Hindi balakid kung magkaiba ang RELIGION niyong dalawa."


25. "Kung kayang i-workout, i-WORKOUT!"
Kalokohan ang reason na "IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S ME."


26. "All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street."

27. "Learn to forgive para magkaroon ka ng peace of mind."

28. "Some can forgive but can't forget."


29. "If something bothers you, speak up!!... mahirap kapag nagpapakiramdaman lang kayo."


30. "OPEN COMMUNICATION, TRUST AND HONESTY are the most important ingredients in a relationship."


31. "You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship pag hindi kasi, it can affect or even ruin your relationship."


32. "Ok lang na magselos, basta yung pakilig lang."


33. "Always have your own set of friends separate from his/her para may iba kang channels that is without him/her... diba?"


34. "Make him/her miss you sometimes... when a man/woman always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him/her, he/she takes it for granted."


35. "Always make time for your family and friends."


36. "You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary."


37. "Always make time for yourself."


38. "Wala yun sa tagal ng relationship... nasa pagmamahal."

39. "There's NO SUCH THING as MR. RIGHT or MS. RIGHT. It's how you mold him/her to become rightfully for you."


40. "There's NO SUCH THING as COOL OFF/GRAY AREA. Kung white, white! Kung black, black! Walang GRAY AREA..."


41. "Always think a number of times before deciding on to something important."


42. "There's a possibility that a person can get attracted to another. It's human nature. It's not wrong. But that is why you're in a commitment, you discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and its ok. As long as, you don't nurse the feeling and do something about it. Borderline between cheating and faithfulness. Recognize reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you get for the cheap thrill of attraction."


43. "You need to let go of the past to have a future...(ICE AGE 2)."

44. "Do not take anyone for granted."

45. "If what you see by the eye doesn't please you, then close your eyes and see from the heart. Because the heart can see beauty and love more than the eyes can ever wonder."


46. "If you felt it, then it was true. Getting hurt doesn't always mean you suffered, it also means you loved sincerely. Don't frown because it's over... SMILE BECAUSE IT HAPPENED."


47. "KARMA (whatever you do) will find its way."


48. "Everything will fall into place."

How to Get Over a Break up~ :)

How to Get Over a Break up

Effective love advice on how to get over a relationship break up. This is a must read for all who are lovelorn.

This is one of the most difficult parts of a love life to get over, it is how to get over a relationship break up. It is tough nursing a broken heart, and we all need a little help to get over this broken heart. The lesson here is that friends and family, basically company, is need always to get over a heart break. Read on to find out how to get over a relationship break up!

The first love, the someone whom you most probably would have decided there and then that you would probably spend the rest of your life with him or her. But sometimes it ends. And it is most painful when it ends abruptly. Arguments are perfectly normal, but when it gets to a certain breaking point, you know that it cannot continue, and you two end the relationship. Or when your partner cheats on you. That is probably the most painful and when you have to break up.

As impossible as it may seem, the rule of thumb to deal with this is to tell yourself that you want to get over him or her. If there is still a little bit inside you that wants it to still work out, then you will never get over your ex or the unreciprocative lover (one-sided crush). And nothing you do will ever work. It has got to start with inside yourself. Your mind is the most powerful after all. And you need to stay away from him or her during the initial period till you are comfortable with meeting him again. Chances are, if you keep being in the company of him or her, you will NEVER get over it and you will be stuck. So please, be brave and take the first step and avoid the person. And while you are avoiding the person, below are some things that you can do to make it easier.

Well here are some concrete steps that you can take to get over a break up.

1.) Talking to someone about the break up. You need to let it out! Bottling it up inside of you is never going to solve your problem. Always verbalize your problems to a listening ear. Any problem whatsoever.

2.) Talk to someone in a similar situation helps too.

3.) Get more ideas on how to get over a break up.

4.) Get busy. Occupy yourself with meaningful things like picking up a hobby or learning something new or preoccupying yourself with books and work.

5.) Watch funny movies, read funny comics, chill and laugh around with your friends. Laughter as always is the best medicine. It always makes you feel better no matter what.

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Ways to Get Over a Breakup

Get rid of whatever items that remind you of your partner. Numbers, messages, letters, gifts. If you can't bear to throw them away, put them with your close friend or somewhere you can't easily get to.

This is mean but pretty effective. Start to concentrate on the negative aspects of your partner's character and tell yourself it is not worth it.

Another mean thing to do and it might cause someone else hurt. I do not think it is wise but the thing is you might meet someone better. Go dating, meeting new people, making new friends. Caution: You might fall in love again so be sure to keep your distance. Moving on to someone else to get over someone is effective but not the ideal way to go about doing things. But please don't give anyone the hear break.

Write down all the hurts and angst inside you on a piece of paper and throw it away. Make the getting over tangible. Helps heaps too.

Once again, talk to your friends, hang out with them! Friends are your pillars of support and as they say 'a friend in need is a friend indeed.' Let all your grief out.

Don't Bottle it Inside of You!



-- This really one helps~ Get over with your not-so-good past relationships! :)
Move on! <3

SOURCE: http://www.yourlifehappiness.com

I FEEL SO SORRY FOR MYSELF~

For all the things I've done for him, there's one thing that made me feel regret with. - FOR ONE TIME, I FORGOT TO THINK ABOUT MYSELF. I've given so much and felt so much pain without even thinking to leave something even a bit for myself.

5hours, 54mins, 36seconds.. exactly from this time on, i can feel that he's now going to leave me. *HANDS UP* I cant do anything about it anymore. As what they're saying, what's the sense of holding on to someone who's not in love with you anymore. For all the sacrifices you've done for him - it's just NOTHING. He didn't even realize my worth. Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.His friends said, │"let him go" │"You deserve better"│.. I'm so pissed off. I hate talking about these stuffs, about how i became so pathetic, martyr && stupid enough to let him do those things to me.

I know it'll be very hard for me to let go of everything - the love i still have for him (will take long enough to fade), the memories that still lingers on my mind (probably will just stay in my mind forever), the plans we've been planning will only be happened in my dreams && the promises that he made me hold on to will only be the words of assurance of my yesterday. I've even dreamed to be his wife of our kids, waking up each day beside him and plan things that will come our way. I never knew it'll end up this way, he said he's going to change and he even asked for a 2nd chance but where is it now? I cant see nor feel any changes from him.

People change, yes indeed.. so I believe everything will get back how on it was used to be. All I want is to get back where things make sense.

It makes me wonder if it does hurt him too, or even think of me when he's doing all those things.. because if YES, he wont keep doing it all over again - if NO, probably he just don't care at all.

PS:

♥ I FEEL SO SORRY FOR MYSELF.

LSS:

♥ MY HAPPY ENDING│AVRIL LAVIGNE

Things have changed.

Seems like i really dont update this much. As ive read my previous blogs, that was still when the 1st semester starts.. But now, another semester has come but im not going to school anymore. I was working as a host somewhere in Greenhills but sad to say, there were some things that made me end my contract there. So im planning to apply again. I dont want to be stucked up here - surfing the net all day -. Uh! that's not nice.

For the past months, i can definitely say that people change though you dont want them to. Before, it was twice a night then suddenly it became twice a month until it was totally NONE at all. To decide to end up a relationship when you fall out of love is easier than being caught in the middle. Middle of what? Between your mind and heart, of course! This is what I’m going to deal now: loving your partner but for some reasons, you are confused, perhaps, pathetic?! This sucks.

I remember some lines from Dawsons Creek - "I think it is time I'll let you go, and that is so hard to do because some part of me will be in love with you for the rest of my life, but the daydreaming, the running in place .. it’s not healthy. So this is me, cutting the cord. This is me, doing what I should have done eight months ago … saying goodbye.”

I am sure that I love him but the thing is, HE's ALWAYS HURTING ME. At first, he's just unintentionally making me feel worthless but now HE JUST DONT CARE AT ALL.

1.) What's with dating someone else knowing that THERE's STILL US? 2.) Then out of the blue just wont receive any text from him at all. 3.)You would just know that the reason why he's not replying with your messages is because he got his new cellphone number without even informing me at all. 4.) Telling his friends that we're already broke up weeks ago which is a LIE. 5.) Changing his accounts from MARRIED to SINGLE && deleting me in his featured friends. 6.) Flirting with his Exs && to some other girls.
Probably, i should have been dead than be totally ignored at all - I SHOULDNT HAVE EXISTED.

It's slowly killing me - I die inside each time he replace me.

My lips were sealed for a long time and he have never heard any single word from me. Id rather be quiet and let him just realize what was he doing to himself or rather in our relationship. Im just hoping that he would realize that all of those things, all the lies && all the pain he's giving me wont do any good at all.
One thing that only goes on my mind - " ATLEAST IM NOT DOING ANYTHING AGAINST THE LIMITS AND OFCOURSE THE CLEAN CONSCIENCE IS MINE~